Navigating life, love, and hard things — and the transformation waiting on the other side.

This is not a space about getting through hard things.

It’s about who you become because of them.

I started ReSourced because I couldn’t find what I needed when my own life fell apart. Not the toxic positivity. Not the “everything happens for a reason.” Not the pressure to bounce back quickly and perform resilience for everyone around me.

I needed someone to tell me that what I was going through had a name. That the fog was a stage, not a life sentence.

That transformation wasn’t just possible — it was already happening, whether I could feel it or not.

I’m Adair Cates — coach, transformation guide, and mom of five navigating the beautiful mess of blended family life. I’ve been through divorce, sudden loss, debilitating health challenges and more hard seasons than I planned for. And what
I’ve learned — slowly, imperfectly, in community with others — is that hard times don’t just test us. They transform us.

This space is for you if:

You’re in the middle of something hard and you need to know you’re not alone.

You’re on the other side of something hard and trying to make sense of what happened to you.

You’re ready to stop surviving and start becoming.